The Lies of Lust: Stolen Humanity

Lie: Objectifying doesn’t hurt anyone.

“My dad told me it’s okay to look, as long as you don’t touch,” a large, well-past-puberty 8^th grader once told me with a smile.

This boy’s father passed on to him the idea that objectification doesn’t hurt anyone. This is a lie. It’s a lie the father had bought into and has now passed on to his son. It’s a lie from culture that many of us have bought into as well.

One could argue that it’s better to look and not touch than it is to give unwanted touches, which is obviously true. This is probably what this father was trying to teach his son. But the fact that unwanted touches bring great harm does not mean that “looking without touching” is a victimless crime, as this dad had led his son to believe.

Read the rest of this article by Noah Filipiak on the Covenant Eyes blog…

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Noah is the founding pastor of Mosaic Church, a multi-ethnic church in urban Grand Rapids, MI. He is a grad of Grand Rapids Theological Seminary.
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