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Myth Busters: “I’ll stop looking at porn when I get married”
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Noah is the founding pastor of Mosaic Church, a multi-ethnic church in urban Grand Rapids, MI. He is a grad of Grand Rapids Theological Seminary.
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Author of Beyond the Battle: A man's guide to his identity in Christ in an oversexualized world
Host of the The Flip Side Podcast
Join an online men's small group led by Noah and team at BeyondTheBattle.net
He is:
Author of Beyond the Battle: A man's guide to his identity in Christ in an oversexualized world
Host of the The Flip Side Podcast
Join an online men's small group led by Noah and team at BeyondTheBattle.net
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Noah, thank you for your commitment to helping others toward godly purity and not objectivizing God’s human creation. Would you say that your article on “I’ll stop looking when I get married” also relates to people that have an entrenched, long time habit of looking/staring/ogling young women in their prime? If not, do you have any articles on the habit (or additive behavior) for those who have “default setting” to quietly, but predictably looking/staring/having an acquired taste for looking at attractive young females (or males for that matter)? Thank you for your good work.
Hi Kathy,
great question and yes, I write a lot about this. Here’s a few:
http://www.atacrossroads.net/license-to-lust-how-porn-trains-objectification/
http://www.atacrossroads.net/lessons-lust-even-burger-king-looks-appetizing/
http://www.atacrossroads.net/the-key-to-sexual-purity/
http://www.atacrossroads.net/men-conditioned-objectify-women-women-believe-lie/
This is also a main topic in my book, which is almost published. There’s some things readers can do to help, basically to convince a publisher to publish it, can be found here if you’re interested: http://www.atacrossroads.net/signed-by-a-literary-agent-how-you-can-help-my-first-book-get-published/
Let me know if there’s anything else I can do to help.